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Overcoming the stigma of HIV and AIDS: Bernard's story


Because of its association with behaviours some find unacceptable,External linkHIV infection is widely stigmatised (UNAIDS). Stigma and discrimination inhibits those who know they are infected from sharing their diagnosis and taking action to protect others and from seeking treatment and care for themselves.

Experience shows that helping people living with HIV and AIDS get access to treatment, mutual support, and ways to get their voices heard at local and national levels is particularly effective in tackling stigma. Which is why DFID supports the creation of 'New Life' centres across Zimbabwe, which provide literally life-saving support, access to services, and a forum to meet others.

This approach is likely to help accelerate the huge progress Zimbabwe has enjoyed in the last couple of years in the fight against AIDS.


Bernard, a peer counsellor at a New Life Centre in Harare'I was bed-ridden with denial'

Meet Bernard, a 43 year-old father of five. It's hard to believe that only three years ago, he was bed-ridden and convinced that his life was over.

In 2002, he started to get sick. He'd heard of HIV and AIDS and suspected that he was infected. But, like 80% of Zimbabweans, he hadn't been tested.

But the stigma associated with AIDS in Zimbabwe meant that Bernard thought he was probably better off not knowing. In August 2006, Bernard said:

“I was bed-ridden with denial. I knew that people would have a problem accepting me, I thought that if I went out to get tested I would bring shame on my family. So I though it was better just to die. After all, I was going to die anyway.”

Bernard was bed-ridden for more than 18 months. Then his sister convinced him that he should go to the New Life centre in Harare's city centre to attend the weekly support group meeting for those living with HIV and AIDS.

He went along, and was amazed there were people who also had AIDS, openly discussing how they felt and what they wanted. They were clearly getting help, and getting on with their lives. The difference this made to his attitude toward his illness gave him courage and led him to help others by becoming a peer counsellor.

Bernard added: "To discover other people in this way gave me hope. Now I am a peer counsellor and other positive people ask me because they saw me in that state before - they can ask me questions because I have seen it all. They say, Bernard, how do I live?"

Attending the support group is how he met Rosa (pictured with Bernard above), who is also HIV-positive. They are now married and counsel others by leading support group meetings and condom demonstrations.

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